I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy.
We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He is a building contractor.
While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me.
And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her.
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas.
People said the guy’s work is good, and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement.
He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street.
He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass in front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has been delaying salaries.
It has not been easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me.
That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have been living comfortably.
I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance.
She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
I am confused and don’t know what to do now.
What Should I Do?